The Schaffner Clan as I remember it. Maybe by mind is getting hazy as my body gets wobbly, but I did the best I could I am 87 years old-
Charlotte August
Forbes Schaffner
PS. If some one adds to this account, I wonder what will be said about Aunt Daisy. I can remember some pretty petty disagreeable quirks in my disposition.
Transcribed
by Vann Schaffner from photocopy of handwritten
notes, a work in progress
July 25, 1965
Sixty two years ago today, I married Daniel Cornelius Schaffner at Kenneybunk
Ivan Roenigk is responsible for this account. I am the last of the older generation and have lived to be 87 last March.
We went to
Meet the family-Next day was Sunday, Hot! We slept (?) upstairs in low ceiling front room, with one small window. Had to shut the door to be modest. Everybody had to go to church; I had to dress up in a suit. Being an Episcopalian I have never seen people visit in church, so after the service (2 p.m.) I just walked out. People thought that was uppity and Dan had to apologize for me and tell me the way it was done in the country. .
The whole clan came “home” to look me over. Lizzie,
Richard, Daniel Julius and Anna Marie; Barbara and Fred Gerber with Annetta, a babe-in-arms. Staying at the farm
Pa and Ma Schaffner, Anna, John and Mable, Dan and “Daisy” as my
husband called me because I went into ecstasy over a field of those
weeds. What I remember best of the swarm of near relatives is two
black-eyed little boys hanging on white picket gate and staring. Had on red shirts with white polka dots. What a crowd
to feed.
Daniel Schaffner senior was born
in Effingen Canton Aargon,
June 11, 1833 [1802, according to ancestry.com
entry, which makes more sense with Daniel Jr. born in 1833]. Died on
the Schaffner farm 1884 and is buried in the family plot. Has slender
pyramid for a marker. His wife died in
Daniel [Schaffner] Jr.-Really died at
Roenigks.
The Schaffner’s started the Presbyterian
Church, and it kept going as long as Lizzie was there to nurse it. She
was [illegible p 4] from the church. Now no parsonage, no church, cemetary stays put. My husband attended the
The Swiss are marvelous people, keen brains, aptitude for languages.
The Schaffners endured prairie fires, grasshopper plague, too much rain, too little rain and, cold and heat.
Pa was set in his ways, but Anna said “If I have a year, I can get Pa
to do anything.”
Daniel Schaffner Jr. 10/11/1833-2/9/1915
He was always “Junior”, although his
father had been dead for years. A small, rather slight
build, white short beard. An extremely keen mind.
He interposed Deuch [sic] words with English.
He and ma often spoke German to each other. His blessing at the table was
always “Komm Herr Jesu,
sei unser gast und segne uns und was du [illegible] beschert
hast.” (Was also Fred Gerber’s grace.)
He had been born in Effingen canton Aargau
My first encounter with Pa was when I came down the stairs which ended in a room where Pa was dressing for church. He was starting to pull up his pants. “Never mind, no harm done.”
After sundown the day of Ma’s funeral, he wanted John and Dan and me
to
He love history, read and remembered it. He was surprised that is sons
had been to college and did not remember some event that was as plain to him as
if he had lived it. He was proud of his children. Who
wouldn’t be. At a church picnic, he
carried my Daniel around, proud as huffy [sic]. Lizzie
“what’s the matter with you? You have six other
grandchildren.” “Ya, Ya
but Dan-i-el (3 syllables, [umlaut]) is a Schaffner
[umlaut]. Char is not worth raising, nothing but a girl. Martha is too
cute [?] to be a girl.” After repeated statements I said
“Then we will call her Pete”. He got a bad cough in the coal
mines in
D.S [Daniel
Schaffner]
He had dumped a 2 qt. jar of spiced peaches, because there were swartz specks in it.
Mother Schaffner told me once that she had given birth to twins, while all
alone. Both died. Seems to me it was not the first babies, but may have
been.
A.S. [Anna Miller (Mueller) Schaffner]
My second summer on the farm Ma got sick and died. In August she went
to
Anna Miller (Mueller)
[Schaffner] September 12, 1830-August 22, 1905
(74) [Wife of Daniel Schaffner Jr. ]
A sweet quiet lady, light brown hair parted in the middle, bun at the neck. I liked her at once, and she told me the summer of 1905, “We could get along just fine,” so I was complimented. I felt very green, had never seen a fried chicken, but after she died I cooked 2 every day. Grandpa (Pa) was a help, he dressed the frier and picked the vegetables. Stonebacks [?] put in our garden several years, while Pa stayed at Merriden [?] with Barbara and family. We went as soon as college was “out”, he a little sooner.
Ma was as meek as Moses, but she told me how indignant she was when Pa
supervised at the store how she spent her money for some calico, money that was
her own, from her own chickens and eggs. She said she liked to have Mabel
come to
Richard Roenigk was a keen observer and said what
he thought, without reservation.
D. C. and I were delighted to have him say “Good-bye, come again.
“. I don’t know only why he did not care for John Schaffner,
but he told me that he said to John “If I ever want you and your family
to visit us, I will invite you. But I never did.”
Anna thought all good life was to be found in “Chicaga”
and she said to Richard if she had to live in Morganville, she would go
crazy. When he told me he remarked “She has not far to go..” That was the year Gov. Landon ran against
F.D.R. and she was sent here to campaign. She ranted against Landon, day
after day while she stayed with us, practicing her speeches. I tried to
calm her down. Landon was not the devil, and he grew liberal with age-
[Children of Daniel Schaffner Jr and Anna Miller/Mueller Schaffner: Mary Elizabeth,
Barbara Louise, John Henry, Margaret Anna, Daniel Cornelius]
Lizzie (Mary Elizabeth) Roenigk 10/22/1860-11/20/42
Lizzie was the oldest child and sort of looked after the others. She treated me like a younger sister (18 yr. younger) but she always called me “Aunt Daisy”. We loved to visit her. William was 4 mo. older than our Daniel. She always beamed when we came. Such good food, quantities of it, so many different foods piled on the table. Each member of the family had his particular piece of chicken.
Richard and Lizzie had the first car in the family. That is, Richard
had it. Our house was in the middle of 160 A, and we could ride with them
to town if we met them on the road that ran by the farm. They brought
Jean Sample to their home from
Barbara was the swiftest most efficient worker I ever saw. When she counted eggs she would pick up 3 in each hand at once, do it twice and she had a dozen. She died of abdominal cancer. Poor Barbara.
11/30/1862-5/3/1922
Barbara Louise [Schaffner] Gerber.
A wide-awake pleasant lady with dark eyes-striking looking. Competent. Married to Fred Gerber, a smart Switzer, who could holler louder than anyone else I ever heard. Apparently she had an even temperament. I never heard her raise her voice in anger, she just put up with the antics of her two sons, John and Ernest whom she called “the little stinkers.” (Shocked me)
She and Fred made dried beef, like Pa’s and cheese, the most delicious I ever tasted.
Three bright good-looking children. Fred sent
“S. Johnny” after the cows and the little stinkers saw some bugs
going across the path, watched them, forgot all about
the cows. That was at their farm in
Johnny and Ernest were little boys when they walk from this farm in Clay Co. [?] to visit the Roenigk cousins. “That was a wide walk,” commented Ernest. Parents spoke mostly German at home.
Barbara and Lizzie taught school and worked to help younger three go to college. D.C. told me after we were married that he owed $1000. If I’d know that before, I’d not have married him.
John Henry Schaffner
July 7, 1866-January 27, 1939
This is the member of the family known among botanists all over the world for his work in cytology and genes and heredity. He was a born teacher, and once when he and D.C. were talking over my head, John said “Sit down Daisy and I will show you.” With pencil and paper he made a chart and explained in plain English; and all was plain. He was beloved by my children for he could make toys and do tricks and recite jingles. He practically built the house on his farm, the farm that belonged to his grandfather and is how owned by his son Jim. His brother Dan farmed it then,-just wheat. John used to get to the farm by July 7, his birthday and wanted (and had) an elderberry pie, probably because he remembered the days before the farm produced apples, peaches, berries. He must have been idolized by his students for one graduate student says he is the most Christlike man she ever knew. She was with him just before class one day when he had a heart attack, from which he soon recovered consciousness, and never mentioned it at home.
He had three wives, Mabel, Mary and Cordelia.
[in the margin]Grandfather homesteaded one farm,
J.H.S
Mabel was rather small, big brown eyes, whom he must have married soon after
graduation from
Then he met Mary Morton Semple at church and
became engaged. He went to Europe to study, found the German botanists
did not know what he was doing in botany so he went on to Zurich, where he was
able to give talks in German. He did not get his Ph.D, never did. Came home to take over as head of department and to marry Mary.
She had a daughter Jean; had buried here husband after a tragic
illness-syphilis. Mary was a lovely character, but not subservient.[sic] The first evening on the farm John wanted
to go on a twilight walk. “Not until I help Daisy with the
dishes,” John “I did not bring you
out here to work!” The next morning John’s egg was not boiled
to suit him (he knew exactly how it was to be done, but would not
demonstrate). “Eat it anyway; It will be
good for you. He did. He soon took her to the cemetery where Mabel
was buried. Soon he took her to visit Lizzie and got a book of poems he
had written to Mabel, and read them to her. He never adjusted to Jean and
she grew to loathe him. Mary had supported herself and Jean by serving as
a dressmaker, and she had saved $1000. John planned to build the house a
174 E 12th at
[In the margin “I read old letters and decided Mary’s husband Sample, did not die before she met John. Divorced, I suppose.
Mary and Jean returned to
Then came Cordelia and 3 children, oldest born
when John was 50. When they visited us in
Where John is now, I feel he is not perturbed to have a grandson studying for the priesthood and nobody could help loving Suzanne, the French girl that his son John married.
Margaret Anna Schaffner 1/1/1869
Last seen alive 12/30/1944
Found 1/2/45
A.B. College of Emporia
M.A. University of Michigan
Ph.D University of Wisconsin
Cl.B. Northwestern Law
Fellow Economics University of Wisconsin
Instructor in Economics University of Iowa
No wonder I felt qualms about my new sister-in-law. But! They soon vanished.
Held numerous jobs legal and with publications. On
and On. Legal expert to supervise bill in
The Best Schaffner Tale
Anna had long since made any pretense of helping with the housework, when
she saw me scalding a batch of tomatoes to make jam. “That is the
way I skin peaches, only the water is hotter.” “This water
was boiling”. “I let the water get hotter. I let it boil for
15 or 20 minutes.” She had 4 college degrees! Please pass the
story down. It is unique.
The first summer after Ma died, Anna said she would get the dinners. Generous. The first day, at 11 o’clock she took Daniel and his little red wagon and went into the orchard. I pitched [in?] and got the chicken fried and dinner on the table when the men came in to wash. Then Anna appeared with her peaches. Said the noon meal took too much time from the book she was writing. She’d get supper. She forgot that and she did no more housework. During the mad rush between 11and 12, once she wanted me to make flour paste for her book. Once she wanted me to cut her nails. She “couldn’t do it.” I told her to file them. That made her nervous. I told her it made me nervous too. She must have lacked imagination. Her work was paramount[illegible] was natural and right. But men animals have to be fed on time, if you are going to live with them.
When Ma went into a coma, I was exhausted and got diarrhea from nervousness. Dr. got a dose of morphine in me and put me to bed. Afterward Anna said “You just went off and let Ma die.” As if any one could have helped her live. I was too stunned to reply.
Anna’s idea of showing grief was to go to bed. John hitched up the buggy and he and Mabel disappeared for the day. Afterward we learned that Mabel went to Clay Co. to borrow or rent black hats and veils for the funeral. Dan and I put in a day. We cleaned the house from top to bottom and did an enormous washing and I managed to bake too. The work helped get through a hard day. Pa was calm.
As the procession line up to go into the church, I was not up front, as I was an in-law. Lizzie came up and said “Go up front. You are a relative.” I was happy to be accepted as a Schaffner.
Anna loved babies and little children. Did not realize that adolescents simply have to be endured for several years. My children adored her. She said boxes for Christmas and they called her their Santa Claus Aunt Anna. How she could argue with brothers over politics. Just a noise. She could not nave fun with me. “I can’t argue with you. You are too logical.”
Anna drove a motor-core ambulance in
She was always in high spirits, would not admit she was growing older. The kind who would not tell her age; fool themselves not others. At Lizzies funeral she looked haggard, eyes bad. Her only glasses came from dime store.
John Gerber feels sure she made a will, but she may have found out that
Uncle Sam would take an awful lot, if she left everything to nephews and
nieces. She left no bank deposits or other possessions as far as her
cousin Anderson or any one else could find.
$3 +/- on her person. Money gave her no
attraction. She was attorney to settle $1,000,000 estate and refused a
fee because the diseased [sic] was a friend. She owned a farm (the old
Minnick farm in Clay Co.) and lot in Madison
Wisconsin.
Her death was tragic. She had lived in a room, with same landlord for seven
years, but told nobody of her comings or goings. She was last seen in
Friday the 30th of Dec. and the other tenants supposed she might be at
Daniel
Cornelius Schaffner
10/23/1872-6/09/1942
“Everybody is queer except thee and me and sometimes I think thee is a
little queer.”
In one of the years not too long before his death, D.C. said to me “I
have grown awfully queer, living with you all these years. I said
“Maybe not so queer as if you had not.” He replied “Well, I guess that is so. “... We had a
lot of happy times, many contented uneventful stretches, some tragic times,
even occasions of pure exasperation. He forgave and forgot (he could
forget, a wonderful quality) in that last year when he was confined to the
house, and rarely saw another person, and relied on me for everything,
his only contact with the outside world. His death left a horrid void,
but never could I want him to be back as an invalid. He had been dressed
everyday and cared for his personal wants. He could not cut his meat,
buttons were too tiny to go in their button holes, he
needed help with his bath. Games, news, plays on radio kept him
interested. That 1951 flood came right after his stroke, and entertained
him all day.
His whole life was centered in the
The science dept. grew, and D.C. came to teach geology only. The collections grew from a shoe box full of rock to 2 rooms of specimens, some unique, the envy of K.U professors. Teaching of geology was discontinued while D.C. was incapacitated. That was hard to take, be missed the calamity. Sharpe (Pres) decided the Lewis Hall was unsafe. It was torn down; the precious geology collections loaded in a truck and dumped along 15 Ave. A little of it salvage by town geology club.
Different generations of students called him Dan; Prof, Schaffie, Doc, were other names. There were so many Daniels. My [grand]son Daniel Clark Schaffner was the seventh, or so John told us about records in church in Effingen. The first Christmas I sat at table and at one side of me were three Daniels (Pa, DC, and Daniel Roenigk) On other side were three Annas, Ma, Margaret Anna and Anna Marie Roenigk. 7 of us.
He was an inspiration to his students, who loved him. Scores wrote me
after his death. He was coach of the track team and it won state contest on May
23, 1904. The day before Daniel was born. It was not held in
One trait I never could understand, was the light way he treated promises, whether a spanking, or a gift. When Daniel was five, he wanted a pony. “Wait until you are ten, and you shall have one.”.. Thanks be, Daniel forgot, and on his 10th birthday went off to the [illegible] with Charles Coleman and a boat his dad (with his help) had made. Half in fun, I said before we were married, that I wanted to dance, have a canoe and a self wringing mop. I got the last 10 years after he died. No canoe, as I could not swim. Really sensible. Playing cards were of the devil. There were a dozen packs in the desk when I cleaned it out, when I was a widow. Most evenings after he retired, I had to play a couple of games (Liver pool rummy?) because “he could sleep better”. As for dancing, we were delegated to out-stay all the students at parties to they did not dance. This was hard for one to understand raised as an E-pis-ca-lop-i-an as he always pronounced it. But I soon conformed. Not that I was ever a Presbyterian.
We always entertained preachers when Synod or Presbytery met here, and I loved to have them. They were always polite; make their beds if they were to use them a second night. And the stories they told! Nobody more entertaining than a relaxed preacher. Often the same men year after year. One afternoon I came home and found someone in the bath-room. “Dearie, are you home?” A man with a lathered face stepped out “I am not Dearie, but I’m here.” He was an old C of E boy grown up, arrived for synod.
His grandpa was his idol, taught him the joy of hunting. His father
was more interested in books, altho he used to set
his pole in the bank of the river on the way to town, and possibly find a fish
on the way home. The Republican river, (lower
down the
Daniel and I lived a rough time at his birth. D.C. was sure he would
grow up to be a great man; I said I’d be thankful if he grew up to be
decent and kept out of jail.
He did! [transcription in progress]